CONSENT & RULES
Respect the Space · Respect Yourself · Respect Each Other
Trinity Playspace is a private members club for adults who share an interest in consensual power exchange, fetish, BDSM and other forms of consensual adult expression.
Our aim is to provide a welcoming environment built on consent, respect, discretion and personal responsibility. Every member plays a part in maintaining the atmosphere and standards of our community.
All members and guests are expected to understand and follow the rules set out on this page.
OUR CORE VALUES
Everything we do at Trinity Playspace is built upon five core values.
CONSENT
No activity is permitted without informed, enthusiastic and ongoing consent.
RESPECT
Members treat each other with courtesy regardless of experience level, role, gender, orientation, identity, age, relationship status or appearance.
DISCRETION
What happens at Trinity stays at Trinity unless explicitly agreed otherwise.
RESPONSIBILITY
Members are responsible for their own actions, limits and wellbeing.
COMMUNITY
We seek to create a welcoming environment where people can safely learn, explore and grow.
CONSENT IS MANDATORY
Consent is the foundation of everything we do at Trinity Playspace.
All activities must involve clear, informed and ongoing consent
from everyone involved.
NO MEANS NO. STOP MEANS STOP.
Consent can be withdrawn at any time without explanation.
Hesitation, uncertainty, silence or lack of participation
must never be interpreted as consent.
NEGOTIATION BEFORE PLAY
Before any scene or activity begins, everyone involved must
clearly communicate their expectations, boundaries and limits.
Negotiation helps ensure that all participants understand
and agree to what is being proposed.
Before play, participants should discuss:
ASSUMPTIONS ARE NOT ACCEPTABLE.
Never assume that previous consent, a relationship or
participation in one activity means agreement to another.
Always communicate clearly and confirm consent before proceeding.
CONSENT IS MANDATORY
Consent is the foundation of everything we do at Trinity Playspace.
All activities must involve clear, informed and ongoing consent
from everyone involved.
NO MEANS NO. STOP MEANS STOP.
Consent can be withdrawn at any time without explanation.
Hesitation, uncertainty, silence or lack of participation
must never be interpreted as consent.
TOUCHING & OBSERVING SCENES
Respecting personal boundaries is essential at Trinity Playspace.
Never assume that being in a shared space gives you permission
to touch, approach or become involved in another person's scene.
TOUCHING POLICY
Unless specifically invited, members must not:
ALWAYS ASK FIRST.
OBSERVING SCENES
Members observing scenes should:
Respect every scene, every boundary and every person.
SAFEWORDS
Safewords are an essential part of consensual play.
Trinity Playspace recommends the traffic-light system
to help participants communicate clearly throughout a scene.
NON-VERBAL SIGNALS
Where speech is restricted, participants must agree
on alternative non-verbal safety signals before play begins.
These signals must be clearly understood by everyone involved.
SAFEWORDS MUST ALWAYS BE RESPECTED.
Failure to respect a safeword is considered a serious
breach of Trinity Playspace club rules.
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY & INTOXICATION
Every member of Trinity Playspace is responsible for
their own wellbeing, decisions and actions. Members
are expected to exercise good judgement and take
responsibility for their participation in club activities.
PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY
Members are responsible for:
Trinity Playspace encourages all members to continue
learning about safer play practices and to develop
their knowledge and understanding.
ALCOHOL & INTOXICATION
Consent requires capacity. Anyone who appears
significantly intoxicated may be prevented from:
CONSENT REQUIRES CAPACITY.
Hosts and Dungeon Monitors have the final decision
regarding whether someone is fit to participate
in activities.
CONFIDENTIALITY, PRIVACY & PHOTOGRAPHY
Discretion and privacy are essential to the Trinity Playspace
community. Every member has a responsibility to protect
the identities, personal information and privacy of others.
CONFIDENTIALITY & PRIVACY
Members must not:
without their permission.
Breaches of confidentiality may result in suspension
or termination of membership.
PHOTOGRAPHY & RECORDING
by the club.
from every identifiable person in the image.
during club events.
RESPECT EVERY MEMBER'S PRIVACY.
What members choose to share within Trinity Playspace
must remain private unless they give permission otherwise.
INCLUSIVITY, EQUIPMENT & PLAY AREAS
Trinity Playspace is committed to creating a welcoming,
inclusive and respectful environment where members
can feel comfortable being themselves.
INCLUSIVITY
Trinity Playspace welcomes adults of all:
Discrimination, harassment, bullying, intimidation
or exclusionary behaviour will not be tolerated.
EQUIPMENT & PLAY AREAS
All members are expected to use club facilities
responsibly and respectfully. Members must:
RESPECT THE SPACE AND ITS EQUIPMENT.
Reckless or improper use of equipment may result
in suspension of membership privileges.
DUNGEON MONITORS & COMMUNITY ETIQUETTE
Trinity Playspace hosts and Dungeon Monitors help
maintain a safe, respectful and welcoming environment
for everyone attending the club.
DUNGEON MONITORS & HOSTS
Their responsibilities include:
Members are expected to cooperate with reasonable
requests from hosts and Dungeon Monitors.
COMMUNITY ETIQUETTE
WE ENCOURAGE
WE DISCOURAGE
RESPECT THE COMMUNITY.
Every member contributes to the atmosphere of Trinity
Playspace. Treat others with courtesy, consideration
and respect.
REPORTING CONCERNS & MEMBERSHIP ENFORCEMENT
Trinity Playspace takes the safety, privacy and wellbeing
of its members seriously. All members are encouraged
to raise concerns so that issues can be addressed
appropriately and fairly.
REPORTING CONCERNS
Members may confidentially report concerns to club
management, including:
ALL REPORTS WILL BE TREATED SERIOUSLY
AND INVESTIGATED FAIRLY.
MEMBERSHIP REVIEW & ENFORCEMENT
Depending on the nature and seriousness of an incident
or breach of club rules, Trinity Playspace may:
SERIOUS MISCONDUCT MAY RESULT IN
MEMBERSHIP BEING WITHDRAWN WITHOUT REFUND.
All members are expected to respect club policies,
cooperate with reasonable instructions from management
and contribute to a safe and respectful community.
YOUR COMMITMENT TO TRINITY
Membership of Trinity Playspace comes with a shared
responsibility to create a welcoming, respectful
and consensual environment for everyone.
By becoming a member of Trinity Playspace,
you confirm that you understand and agree
to uphold the club's principles, policies
and expectations.
AS A MEMBER, YOU AGREE TO:
and ongoing consent.
and decisions of others.
confidentiality of fellow members.
wellbeing and participation in club activities.
instructions from hosts and Dungeon Monitors.
may result in membership being suspended
or revoked.
RESPECT THE SPACE
RESPECT YOURSELF
RESPECT EACH OTHER
Together, we make Trinity Playspace a community
built on trust, consent and mutual respect.
